1. Family relations. A strong orientation toward the
family and life within the family is typical among the people of
Slovakia. Much as in other countries, however, there has been an
erosion of traditional family life in recent years. Today, young
people are less likely to care for their elderly parents. On the
other hand, decades of poor economic performance have
strengthened support among extended-family members to help each
other. Parents are more likely to supply long-term assistance to
off-spring who have reached adulthood. Surveys report that
getting married and having children are among the most generally
shared "values" in Slovakia, being most important for
61 percent of adult respondents (FOCUS, 1995).
A rigid approach toward childraising that fails to allow for
the individuality of each child still prevails among parents.
According to interviews, this can be attributed to the influence
on society of an authoritarian regime during the forty years of
Communist rule and, paradoxically, to a largely Catholic
tradition.
2. Parents. "The biggest problem of
children," according to one observer (Alexandra
Krý#154;lova, Psychologist), "is their parents. If you
want to help the children, you need to help the parents."
Parents lack parenting skills. Their own experience has revolved
around an authoritarian model of education. When facing even
trivial problems in educating their children, they often resort
to harsh, unbending disciplinary strategies. This has to do with
the long absence of a democratic environment. Social
psychologists interviewed view the reproduction of this type of
education as a significant cause of the success enjoyed by
politicians who favor authoritarian methods. Missing is a pattern
of concern for close relationships within the family and,
especially, education to foster such a pattern of concern.
Physicians and psychologists interviewed for this report believe
that the social immaturity of parents, along with the general
increase in violence in society, finds its most tragic
manifestation in the rising number of children who are abused by
their parents.
The long-term economic dependence of children on their parents
tended to render society ever more infantile. Under "real
socialism," higher wages, salaries and, hence, living
standards were not readily available to young families, which
stood little chance of gaining economic independence. This
anomaly became a standard to such an extent that, given the
change in the economic situation, elderly parents frequently felt
qualms about not being able to use their pensions to provide for
their children's families. The sense of responsibility toward
one's parents is nowadays relatively weak among persons in their
30s and 40s.
Today's adolescents seem to embody a positive shift. The times
seem to favor greater flexibility and self-reliance. The
environment is changing for childraising. Mothers are choosing to
stay home with their babies for longer periods for two reasons:
First, transition from a centrally-planned system and state's
economic restraints have caused the once broad network of
crèches to be virtually dismantled.
Many kindergartens are being closed, and the services offered
by the remaining few are becoming prohibitively expensive.
Second, mothers are choosing to stay home in order to provide a
higher quality of care to their children.
3. Early marriage. Under the law, men and women may
marry after they have reached 18 years of age. A court may allow
an exemption by granting a 16 or 17-year-old the right to marry.
In such cases, those who marry are officially recognized as
having come of age. Heterosexual intercourse with an under
15-year-old and homosexual intercourse with an under 18-year-old
are criminal offenses. This distinction in age is viewed by
homosexuals as discriminatory. The average age at which sexual
activity begins among the population of Slovakia#151;just under
16#151;is somewhat earlier than it is among the populations in
more developed European countries. Five years ago the average age
in Slovakia was 17 (Source: G. Bianci, I. Luksik, M. Pooper, V.
Mayer: Results of Research of Sexual Behavior and Knowledge About
AIDS Among Slovak Youth. Institute of Social Communication and
Biocommunication, Slovak Academy of Sciences, November 1993.)
Over recent decades early marriages prompted by pregnancy have
become common in Slovakia, although the trend has been
diminishing since 1989. In 1989 about 49 percent of all brides
were already pregnant at marriage; in 1990, the figure was 45
percent. The average age among those entering a first marriage is
24 for men and 22 for women. The young age at marriage is a cause
of the low average age among people divorcing (divorces are
concentrated in the 25- to 30-year age group). Early marriages
are often associated with problem children, growing numbers of
broken and one-parent families, and the younger age of
grandparents.
The high number of unwanted pregnancies, which frequently lead
to early marriage or abortion, can be related to inadequate
education in family planning and to inadequate sexual education.
Abortion is still being employed as though it were a
contraceptive. The Abortion Act is liberal. Before legal changes
were adopted in the beginning of 1995, surgical intervention was
offered free until the eighth week of pregnancy, and 500 crowns
was charged thereafter until the 12th week. Recent changes have
been made in abortion fees. There were 38,302 abortions in
Slovakia in 1993.
4. Family time. A lack of time for communication among
family members has accompanied the transition to the market
economy. The burden of school assignments can become much heavier
on children if parents are too busy to help. Today, parents must
frequently make a choice between devoting almost all their time
and energy to their jobs#151;which have now become associated
with unprecedented opportunities for advancement#151;or lagging
behind and wasting the chance to provide for the material
well-being of their families. Especially in well-to-do families,
parents tend to overcompensate for the fact that they are not
spending enough time with their children by furnishing material
goods and money, which can be a source of still other social
pathologies.
The time spent in the family fold is also limited by the
usually high labor force participation rate among mothers.
According to the 1991 Census, of the 724,199 women with children
under 15 years of age, 661,363, or 91.3 percent, were
economically active (Statistical Office of the Slovak Republic,
1994). Two incomes are in most cases essential if a family is to
maintain at least a moderate standard of living. Under "real
socialism," the high labor force participation of mothers
was heralded as an achievement in the liberation of women, and
this perception has become internalized within society. The high
participation rate has also been due to the relatively
sophisticated job skills among women and the fact that a
long-term interruption of the professional career of a skilled
individual is viewed as a loss.
5. The economic situation of families. Failure to find
a job and failure in business are becoming ever more frequent.
Professionals who work with children and with young people have
been observing distinct signs of the pauperization of society.
According to the Slovak Statistical Office, 41 percent of all
households in October 1993 were officially considered low-income
households, that is, these households were living close to or
below the poverty line. The overall economic situation among
families deteriorated in 1990-93.
By the end of 1993, purchasing power had dropped to 73 percent
of the level at which it had been at the beginning of 1990
(Statistical Office of the Slovak Republic, 1994).
In 1994 this negative trend was halted, and conditions are
expected to remain stable over the next several years. On the
other hand, the economic transition is creating an environment,
although on a limited scale, that is favoring the emergence of a
more well off middle class. Slovak society is not accustomed to
deal with differences in wealth; it is markedly oriented toward
egalitarian attitudes. Thus, children are sometimes finding it
difficult to communicate with peers who are obviously from more
well off families.
6. The family and the state. Since June 1992 family
issues have been the responsibility of the Ministry of Labor and
Social Affairs, which at that time was renamed the Ministry of
Labor, Social Affairs and Family.
The Family Act was promulgated in 1964. It is marked by the
Communist philosophy that the family is subordinate to social
interests. The Family Act contains no provision for review or
enforcement, nor does it define the precise responsibilities of
the family and the state. It does not tolerate individualistic
approaches to family life, providing support as it does only to
families deriving from a marriage bond. The emphasis in the
Family Act is on the relationship of marriage and not on the link
between parent and child.
The fact that in divorce cases the courts tend to grant the
custody of children to the mothers is frequently criticized. The
Union of Slovak Men, which brings together men who have been
affected by such decisions, believe that the courts rule in favor
of women because there is higher percentage of female judges in
Slovak courts. Current legislation inadequately regulates the
right of parents to contact their children after divorce. The
parent who has not been awarded custody typically has only
limited power to prevent being excluded from the upbringing of
the children.
Slovakia is among the nations which have signed the U.N.
Convention on the Rights of the Child. This document has become a
valid part of the legal system of the country.
7. Where should the effort be focused? Various forms of
support for parents might be helpful. So might the screening of
high-risk families and high-risk parents, the establishment of
hotlines and parent counseling, social work with the children of
divorced and divorcing parents, more sexual education, and early
informal education for family planning. |